Circle a GR (Green), YLW (Yellow), or RD (Red) Interest Level for each activity that are you interested, open to, or not interested in giving or doing to your partner. If you are not sure what it is, circle the question mark. If you have tried the activity listed before, circle Y for Yes. Next to each activity listed is: Tried Before?, Interest Level (Giving), Interest Level (Receiving), and Shy. Both partners are encouraged to fill it out separately.
This checklist can be completed by the Dominant/Top, submissive/bottom, or switch. Decide what each one means for you and answer accordingly. Remember that it's okay for your answers to change or be flexible and that you might be interested in some things at certain times and not at others. What would you like to try, feel, and have done to you? Consider new ideas and possibilities. Take your time and answer as honestly as you can. It's not about what your partner or anyone else wants at this point, it's all about what you want. It is important to have clarity on your wants, needs, and desires. Find a quiet, comfortable, non-rushed place to fill out this checklist your own. You have nothing to lose and a world of pleasure to gain! By exploring, sharing, and negotiating this list with your partner, you can discover what you will, won't, and might do together. Some things might be better staying a fantasy or never trying at all-This is all about you and your sexual needs, desires, and curiosities! Have fun going through the list and be open, honest, and true to yourself. Remember that you never have to do or try anything that you don't want to do. Think about what you like or what you might be open to try and leave the rest. Some activities might seem extreme or shocking which is a normal reaction. You may not know what some of them are and that's okay. Are you ready to take your relationship and your sexual ecstasy to the next level? Following is a list of possible BDSM activities presenting a world of kinky possibilities. In a hellish world, finding joy where you can-like feeling fanny flutters from looking into someone’s belly button-is a privilege worth celebrating.Kink Compatibility Checklist The more you know about your intimate needs and curiosities, the safer, hotter, and more exciting your playtime will be! Once your desires are matched up with your partner's interests and fantasies, your play time in the bedroom will never be the same again. And being able to be turned on by a typically unsexual entity or exploit is bloody fab. What an admittedly incomplete list like this boils down to is that almost everyone has some sexual proclivity for an act or object that isn’t inherently sexual. The world of kink is as wild and varied as an encyclopedia-and there’s undoubtedly some queen out there with an actual encyclopedia kink, too. Whichever way you go about it, I’m sure there’s a comforting feeling to be found in giving up control and autonomy to a loved one to chase tennis balls about instead. As with all the kinks on this list, pup play can range from really casual-wearing a collar occasionally-to extremes of living 24/7 as a doggy, even sleeping in a cage next to your master’s bed. From sniffing crotches to eating out of a bowl, get ready to crawl about on all fours if you want to give this one a go. Especially popular among gay men, puppy play involves a special kind of submission where you are treated and expected to act like a pet dog. Anyone who’s witnessed a pride parade can recognize pup play from the elaborate masks involved.